You’re a Sexy Fucker

These days, so often I wonder why guys have such a hard time accepting a compliment. 

Generally speaking, and yes I said generally, guys just don’t accept compliments well. Maybe they accept it more if it comes from a woman, or maybe it’s that their confidence feels better if it comes from a woman. Either way I think if anyone, boy, girl, man or woman gives you a compliment—yeah bitch—accept it with good manners and say thank you. It’s when the exchange becomes creepy, that’s the real problem. 

When I was in my teens I was hit on by every older creep you can imagine. A compliment from them was just a ploy to fuck me. But today, I like compliments because I’m stronger and more confident to be able to accept them. I think to accept compliments from anyone you must have a certain level of confidence in yourself. It’s easy to learn. I mean, no one is teasing you or insinuating anything, they are giving you a compliment. Sure you’ll feel awkward at times but over time, be happy someone is complimenting you and feel good about it, that is what a compliment does for you, makes you feel good. And foremost, good manners will have you replying, “Thank you for the compliment,” no matter who gives it to you. So to be disrespectful to someone who has complimented you, regardless of who it is, is just plain rude. You should check yourself. Now I’m not suggesting all compliments are the same but one that is nice and respectful—what is the problem ? It’s a nice a nice gesture. 

No one owes anyone anything for a simple compliment. Sometimes people use compliments as a way to come onto you, however awkward at first, just say thanks and go on with your bad self. Simple. Just be respectful and thankful someone other than your mother notices you.